stefan (stefbun)
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78I do stuff with taxes for a living and occasionally touch server-stuff for a hobby (when I am not banging my head against it and want to throw it out the window)
I love dressing girly occasionally, call me crossdresser. All future pics for that will be posted on my picdump-account on my sharkey-instance: https://shark.lightnovel-dungeon.de/@stefan (I will vet the followings there)
I also love sewing and reading (Light Novels especially)
stefan (stefbun)
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@Carlos joah nur sehr warm... Aber ich sah hervorragend aus. Siehe hier: https://shark.lightnovel-dungeon.de/notes/anpoy3iu172o0crg
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I had a small shover and ice cream. Fucking Tired but also very happy.
I got many compliments on my lovely outfit. Was so nice for sure. I really love it aswell.
But CSD was very nice. Even though I did not make until the end of the demo. I just got too tired after all
But people were having fun for sure and the messages from demo are also very important.
Also shoutout to blister plasters by compeed. They are also great to use to prevent them
I got many compliments on my lovely outfit. Was so nice for sure. I really love it aswell.
But CSD was very nice. Even though I did not make until the end of the demo. I just got too tired after all
But people were having fun for sure and the messages from demo are also very important.
Also shoutout to blister plasters by compeed. They are also great to use to prevent them
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the demonstration is still going in Freiburg. But I have to go now. Heat is getting to me for sure by now and feet are heavy.
And I need a shower as well.
I am very thankful for the train having AC. I really need that right now
And I need a shower as well.
I am very thankful for the train having AC. I really need that right now
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stefan@shark.lightnovel-dungeon.deFedi happy Pride!
I will attend the christopher-street-day in Freiburg. So if you happen to see this cutie feel free to say hello. But please be nice okay?
Pride is very important. Even more so this year with all the far right idiots wanting all of use to go into hiding. For someone like that would be easy. Just dress “normally”. But for other people this is a threat to their lives.
Thats why “Flagge zeigen” is more important than ever before. It is sad that the existance of queers of all kinds has to be political. All my friends wish is to just live and be cared for right?
But pride also should be a celebration, something happy that does maybe help light up the mood you know.
Its fucking hot today but I will stil attend. 
All cute and glorious. 
Also never forget friends: You are loved and you deserve to be cared for and trans rights and the of everything queer are human rights!
Please stay awesome fedi! 
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@Johann150 @toast @kaia Yeah you can maybe opt-out of it but for most people its not worth it. Like private insurance is way more complicated than just showing your card and it costs a lot especially when you are older when you join.
State insurance is also mandated until a certain income bracket as well. Though the more you earn after a point tge cheaper it gets compared there is a lovely word for that "Beitragsbemessungsgrenze"
State insurance is also mandated until a certain income bracket as well. Though the more you earn after a point tge cheaper it gets compared there is a lovely word for that "Beitragsbemessungsgrenze"
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@kaia Oh yeah those Kassensitze are fucking expensive. And also an asset you can sell to someone else. Was always kinda weird to me.
Oh and didn't they cut rates for psychiatrists as well not too long ago.
I guess all we can do is suffer. No help for peasents anymore for "free" pay up people! neoliberalism is here to safe the day.
This all is sad to hear. But not even the first time for me.
Oh and didn't they cut rates for psychiatrists as well not too long ago.
I guess all we can do is suffer. No help for peasents anymore for "free" pay up people! neoliberalism is here to safe the day.
This all is sad to hear. But not even the first time for me.
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@N33R this pretty much.
I would not wanna associate with these toxic men either. Like ewwww. dudebro cult is something else.
Should not be too hard to built a alternative to that. Especially talking about stuff like a bookclub.
Like hell I did manage to find some women-dominated spaces (Lolita in this case on reddit) where they do not mind me being there as a male. Just be respectful and enjoy the fashion and talk about it. (I guess it does help though that like the fem side of Lolita Fashion) There is Ouji which you could pull off as a guy as well though.
Though I guess count in the fact that I like crossdress as well so I feel way safer in a women dominated space generally.
That said I would not try to join some explicitly female-only groups. If they not want me thats fine too. Plenty of other spaces where they not mind right?
I would not wanna associate with these toxic men either. Like ewwww. dudebro cult is something else.
Should not be too hard to built a alternative to that. Especially talking about stuff like a bookclub.
Like hell I did manage to find some women-dominated spaces (Lolita in this case on reddit) where they do not mind me being there as a male. Just be respectful and enjoy the fashion and talk about it. (I guess it does help though that like the fem side of Lolita Fashion) There is Ouji which you could pull off as a guy as well though.
Though I guess count in the fact that I like crossdress as well so I feel way safer in a women dominated space generally.
That said I would not try to join some explicitly female-only groups. If they not want me thats fine too. Plenty of other spaces where they not mind right?
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@N33R please excuse my brain being not super up to snuff atm was a warm night lol. I should have figured that its hard to tell who it actually.
Its in general a very stupid argument to make I guess. Talk to a women about stuff like gyms and you will know why womens-only spaces are indeed needed.
But the lesbian bar one is just... Did they hit their head? Target Audience and stuff. I would not wanna have a man in there or even be there even though I like women.
Though I think gay bars (not the nightclub variety a place to enjoy a drink) are less stingy about a female visiting them. Atleast the one I have gone to did not mind that I had a women with me. Though I guess both of us being queer helped there
Its in general a very stupid argument to make I guess. Talk to a women about stuff like gyms and you will know why womens-only spaces are indeed needed.
But the lesbian bar one is just... Did they hit their head? Target Audience and stuff. I would not wanna have a man in there or even be there even though I like women.
Though I think gay bars (not the nightclub variety a place to enjoy a drink) are less stingy about a female visiting them. Atleast the one I have gone to did not mind that I had a women with me. Though I guess both of us being queer helped there
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@N33R I might have phrased that one badly sorry. I wad trying to ask who are the people debating over this?
I can't someone who transitioned being to upset to able to go to a lesbian bar or womens only bookclub.
But even to me this idea sounds very silly.
I can't someone who transitioned being to upset to able to go to a lesbian bar or womens only bookclub.
But even to me this idea sounds very silly.
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I wonder if @mametsuko woudl approve of this 
RE: https://shark.lightnovel-dungeon.de/notes/anoow578172o0bfc
RE: https://shark.lightnovel-dungeon.de/notes/anoow578172o0bfc
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