stefan (stefbun)
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78I do stuff with taxes for a living and occasionally touch server-stuff for a hobby (when I am not banging my head against it and want to throw it out the window)
I love dressing girly occasionally, call me crossdresser. All future pics for that will be posted on my picdump-account on my sharkey-instance: https://shark.lightnovel-dungeon.de/@stefan (I will vet the followings there)
I also love sewing and reading (Light Novels especially)
I had a small shover and ice cream. Fucking Tired but also very happy.
I got many compliments on my lovely outfit. Was so nice for sure. I really love it aswell.
But CSD was very nice. Even though I did not make until the end of the demo. I just got too tired after all
But people were having fun for sure and the messages from demo are also very important.
Also shoutout to blister plasters by compeed. They are also great to use to prevent them
I got many compliments on my lovely outfit. Was so nice for sure. I really love it aswell.
But CSD was very nice. Even though I did not make until the end of the demo. I just got too tired after all
But people were having fun for sure and the messages from demo are also very important.
Also shoutout to blister plasters by compeed. They are also great to use to prevent them
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the demonstration is still going in Freiburg. But I have to go now. Heat is getting to me for sure by now and feet are heavy.
And I need a shower as well.
I am very thankful for the train having AC. I really need that right now
And I need a shower as well.
I am very thankful for the train having AC. I really need that right now
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@Johann150 @toast @kaia Yeah you can maybe opt-out of it but for most people its not worth it. Like private insurance is way more complicated than just showing your card and it costs a lot especially when you are older when you join.
State insurance is also mandated until a certain income bracket as well. Though the more you earn after a point tge cheaper it gets compared there is a lovely word for that "Beitragsbemessungsgrenze"
State insurance is also mandated until a certain income bracket as well. Though the more you earn after a point tge cheaper it gets compared there is a lovely word for that "Beitragsbemessungsgrenze"
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@kaia Oh yeah those Kassensitze are fucking expensive. And also an asset you can sell to someone else. Was always kinda weird to me.
Oh and didn't they cut rates for psychiatrists as well not too long ago.
I guess all we can do is suffer. No help for peasents anymore for "free" pay up people! neoliberalism is here to safe the day.
This all is sad to hear. But not even the first time for me.
Oh and didn't they cut rates for psychiatrists as well not too long ago.
I guess all we can do is suffer. No help for peasents anymore for "free" pay up people! neoliberalism is here to safe the day.
This all is sad to hear. But not even the first time for me.
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@N33R this pretty much.
I would not wanna associate with these toxic men either. Like ewwww. dudebro cult is something else.
Should not be too hard to built a alternative to that. Especially talking about stuff like a bookclub.
Like hell I did manage to find some women-dominated spaces (Lolita in this case on reddit) where they do not mind me being there as a male. Just be respectful and enjoy the fashion and talk about it. (I guess it does help though that like the fem side of Lolita Fashion) There is Ouji which you could pull off as a guy as well though.
Though I guess count in the fact that I like crossdress as well so I feel way safer in a women dominated space generally.
That said I would not try to join some explicitly female-only groups. If they not want me thats fine too. Plenty of other spaces where they not mind right?
I would not wanna associate with these toxic men either. Like ewwww. dudebro cult is something else.
Should not be too hard to built a alternative to that. Especially talking about stuff like a bookclub.
Like hell I did manage to find some women-dominated spaces (Lolita in this case on reddit) where they do not mind me being there as a male. Just be respectful and enjoy the fashion and talk about it. (I guess it does help though that like the fem side of Lolita Fashion) There is Ouji which you could pull off as a guy as well though.
Though I guess count in the fact that I like crossdress as well so I feel way safer in a women dominated space generally.
That said I would not try to join some explicitly female-only groups. If they not want me thats fine too. Plenty of other spaces where they not mind right?
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@N33R please excuse my brain being not super up to snuff atm was a warm night lol. I should have figured that its hard to tell who it actually.
Its in general a very stupid argument to make I guess. Talk to a women about stuff like gyms and you will know why womens-only spaces are indeed needed.
But the lesbian bar one is just... Did they hit their head? Target Audience and stuff. I would not wanna have a man in there or even be there even though I like women.
Though I think gay bars (not the nightclub variety a place to enjoy a drink) are less stingy about a female visiting them. Atleast the one I have gone to did not mind that I had a women with me. Though I guess both of us being queer helped there
Its in general a very stupid argument to make I guess. Talk to a women about stuff like gyms and you will know why womens-only spaces are indeed needed.
But the lesbian bar one is just... Did they hit their head? Target Audience and stuff. I would not wanna have a man in there or even be there even though I like women.
Though I think gay bars (not the nightclub variety a place to enjoy a drink) are less stingy about a female visiting them. Atleast the one I have gone to did not mind that I had a women with me. Though I guess both of us being queer helped there
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@N33R I might have phrased that one badly sorry. I wad trying to ask who are the people debating over this?
I can't someone who transitioned being to upset to able to go to a lesbian bar or womens only bookclub.
But even to me this idea sounds very silly.
I can't someone who transitioned being to upset to able to go to a lesbian bar or womens only bookclub.
But even to me this idea sounds very silly.
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I wonder if @mametsuko woudl approve of this 
RE: https://shark.lightnovel-dungeon.de/notes/anoow578172o0bfc
RE: https://shark.lightnovel-dungeon.de/notes/anoow578172o0bfc
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@mametsuko 
I see. Its nice to hear though you two are so happy together
I see. Its nice to hear though you two are so happy together
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stefan (stefbun)
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@fristi I am with you on the taste stuff. I never really got too hammered other than that one time on a festival. And do tend to get rather talkative when drinking alc lol.
Its just way too often that people drink too much alc especially in such heat. its a recipe for a small disaster.
There is stuff where I enjoy the alcohol like with met (you the honey wine I presume) or even that mixed with a beer great combo though its very easy to get drunk on that stuff lol.
For beers I do enjoy the alc free (or even better 0,0 ones) I drink them for the taste and since they can be kinda refreshing. Especially my beloved radler. There it really does not matter if its alc-free or not.
And yeah alc-free stuff got so good. Ask @rick about if you want
Its just way too often that people drink too much alc especially in such heat. its a recipe for a small disaster.
There is stuff where I enjoy the alcohol like with met (you the honey wine I presume) or even that mixed with a beer great combo though its very easy to get drunk on that stuff lol.
For beers I do enjoy the alc free (or even better 0,0 ones) I drink them for the taste and since they can be kinda refreshing. Especially my beloved radler. There it really does not matter if its alc-free or not.
And yeah alc-free stuff got so good. Ask @rick about if you want
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