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@alexseifert Looking cozy today. blobcatheart And yes I love the look of fleece-tights. They look like normal see-through tights but keep you super warm (and you do not need to shave hehe )

Enjoy your day in this!
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@ritahayuni I dunno tbh I did not dare to look at other people too much because of anxiety. neocat_sweat

But yeah the looks and wears so lovely tbh. The boots are somewhat comfy and the tights and coat look awesome and keep me warm in that weater no problem. Without the anxiety.

When I feel a little safer I will definietly enjoy myself in an outfit like this. I love the outfit so much as well.
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@alexseifert Man blisters are the worst. I managed to get away without any so far. By being a bit smart. I am no fan of open top shoes (so no lacing straps or anything) since I don't like the look of those anyway.

In boots (of any shaft height). You can get away with socks easily since it won't disturb the outfit.

Some outfits like that maid dress I work on look better with tights in the shoes directly though. So I like to have some strap to secure them better so my foot does not move around as much while walking to prevent blisters.

Most of the time my problem is more that I tend to get abbrasion between my thigh and crotch-region. So I hope those cycling shorts will help there as they have no seam that region that can rub.
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@alexseifert I bought the mini-version of the skirt a whim first (like a year back or so after coming out of the closet. And for most stuff it just felt too short for me. But with these high lace-up boots in a goth-y look and that coat it just feels like the right length. Though maybe a tad cheeky.

The high boots really shrink the gap between the hem of the skirt and the top of the boots to a nice and comfy level. Anything less and I would rather wear a longer skirt tbh.

But here in this combi. Its awesome. Espcially for the fact that the skirt ends the same length as the coat making for a stunning look in that when no skirt peeks out from underneath I am in love with it.

Just showing off the coat, the boots and some juicy gap inbetween.

It is though still kinda funny to me that this would make me wear a shorter skirt in winter than in the summer. I may need to look for a nice coat that is long enough just to end above knee. So I can fit my longer skirt under it without it peeking through. I will have to look.

Here are some links to the skirts I bought btw

Mini-Version: https://www.amazon.de/gp/aw/d/B08ZK8ZGY3 (not in stock anymore but mini-skirts are availiable obundantly you will find something similar

The Midi (Knee-length for me) is this one: https://www.amazon.de/gp/aw/d/B09486QDBP (they not have the same like I have anymore but I also have the same one in that green tartan and black)

Both of these I bought in L for the length mostly as the waistband is made with elastic so it is super comfy and fits me well all the time.

The black one is great when I want to wear some colored top and red is just my go-to color tbh.

I figured that i certainly would need socks in these boots. I just wanted to be sure which pain-points might come from them. For the right foot this will work, the left though is kinda neocat_woozy

But I surely will take care going down stairs and clutch that handrail. Not elegant but I will not die.

I normally Am less anxious when Friends take me out (I feel very safe with @rick for example akko_hug )

But going out alone like this is very different. Though I will calm down as I reach my location (was like that with the CSD in Stuttgart atleast)
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@volpeon sounds about right. Gamers Nexus did a nice video on that very rigged system recently.
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@Nukumori I mean the skirt is the same as ever. My favorite design but in Mini-Skirt format instead of knee-length as per usual.

I am more a fan of the knee-length variant. But I chose the mini this time as it is not seen under the coat. My knee length one is seen under the coat just a bit.

Ah yeah looking around what you want and what suits you can be different. I tried so many things along the way. Some I really liked others were not style at all


I kinda settled on this "alternative" style as it features sheos which are not absolute pain to walk in, leaning into the goth-like aesthetic. Though I am not goth.... So that makes me a poser maybe?

Still I love seeing me like that. As said on other occasions. I would pick myself up for a date like this xD

Good luck on your journey btw and I hope you can find a happy-place too akko_hug
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@Natasha_Jay And if one was lucky the tape was still one piece and you could maybe save it
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The Amphora of Great Intelligence (AGI) Part 2

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@Nukumori I love these boots so much blobcatheart

I certainly need Heels for my looks. Without them I feel like I miss something. Though that might because of fetish-reasons as well a bit. But to me an outfit just looks so much better so much more fem with some heels. I like them, I like looking at them I like wearing.

I did buy some heels that are a bit more comfy recently having blocky heels and stuff.

I went to work in my other pair but soon realized ergomics suffer for me in heels. Not even because of the heels themselves but since they mame you taller. And my chair is already in its highest position when wearing my relative flat sneakers blobcatjoy

Anxiety was kinda bad today. I did not wanna look at people and I covered much of my face. But strolling down the sidewalks and streets made me feel great.

The combo is obviously very out there. The coat and boots are surely eyecatcher. I love the look but have to cope with the anxiety for a bit until I can feel safe.

I soooo much fell in love with this more alt-look
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Waht is great though is the outfit was warm enough for the weather. I was kinda sweaty at home though. Might be because I begin catching a cold.
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I do really hope I can go somewhere in these this weekend. I planned to visit a queer-cafe in Freiburg on friday and then go to the CSD in Emmendingen on Saturday.

Though I do feel like I am catching a cold right now... (like fucking always when I actually want to go somewhere.... I hate my body sometimes in winter)

I really hope to feel better quick. Though i might skip the cafe in friday and aim to go only to the CSD in saturday...

urgh
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Edited 17 days ago
I kinda could not wait until friday to test out my new demonia boots in the outside world...

So I took a "little" walk outside today. Wasn't perfect weather but it was just spray raining a bit today. The walk was not that little even I was goind around the city for about I think 30-45 min.

Though I had quite a lot of anxiety before going out as well. So I did a anxiety special today. Scarf over the mouth, headphones on and hat.

tbh I wanted to test out the boots and the a bit warmer outfit. I never went anywhere dressed fem during winter, so I had to get a feel on what is good for this weather.

The Outfit consists of the following:

- cycling shorts (I had problems with getting abrasions in the crotch region easily when wearing tights and moving around a lot)
- fleece-layered tights for some warmth
- red tartan mini-skirt.
- long sleeved black t-Shirt
- knitted beige sweater
- "cat-ear" knitted hat
- red scarf
- and of course the Demonia Camel 300 Boots though I did put in some better insoles to make them fit slightly better
(- I specifically did not add my blister-resist-socks and went only on stockings into the boots just to see where the pain-point might arise)

Now to the walk itself:

Stairs will be the bane of my existence in these. Going up the stairs at the end of the walk was absolutely fine. But everyone who wore some heels for some time before knows. Going down stairs in heels is a challenge. I could stumbling down a set of stairs in these puppies lol. They are high and have lots of platform so going down stairs is kinda challenging.

I won't never look graceful going down stairs lol. But just take it slow and steady. But I made it unharmed. Going up stairs certainly was easier xD

Walking around in the boots was very fine tbh. The boots might get heavy with extended wear maybe.

I love how high they are though. I can't go fast in them, taking way smaller steps but it was so much fun. I could likely go through any puddles (as long as they are less than 4cm deep I guess) in these.

Walking itself was good. I strolled through different sidewalks, going up and down, crossing streets going through wonky non-flat streets. I generally felt totally fine walking the streets and sidewalks. I was having fun taking my time.

I was though kinda anxious the whole time. blobcatsweat (I know its unfounded but still...)

Now obviously these boots are still heels after all, so there is caveats, but I think I should manage in them quite good generally. They felt quite comfy for what they are. The wide, square toebox really helps make them comfier for sure.

Not wearing socks in them made me slide around a bit the boots (easily fixed with the blister-resist socks or socks in general).

Now there is some interesting stuff for me to take away:

- The right boot sits really well with the insole. Without socks I will certainly develop blisters over time on the ball of my foot. But I don't slide around too much in this.

- The left one is a bit more ... interesting. I slide way more in that one. Its also my longer foot of the two. I tend to hit the front of the toebox while setting my foot on the ground but only on the left.

MAybe they are too small? I will have too see. Nothing that would be unmanageable tbh (I hope). I may try lacing them again to prevent slippage maybe.

I wil just tag you as you might be interested @Nukumori @alexseifert @ritahayuni @guyinaskirt

#crossdressing
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@hoshi Sinds echt schon so viele? Wow krass. Ich muss leider auch zugeben dass ich die Comics doch gerne mal verpasse neocat_smol
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Auch wenn mein heutiger Comic eher unbeachtet blieb bisher, möchte ich dennoch das "Tomato Friends" Jubiläum nicht unerwähnt lassen. Mit dem heutigen Comic haben wir sage und schreibe 500 (!!!) Comics erreicht! 😳 Könnt ihr das glauben? Ich bin selbst sprachlos. Ich danke allen, die die Geschichten der Tomaten mit Favs und Teilen belohnen. 🤗 Ich freu mich, wenn ich wenigstens ein paar Leuten damit eine Freude machen kann. Auf weitere 500 Comics! Ich hoffe auch künftig auf eure Unterstützung! 🥺 😉

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@3psboyd he is not mad at you for sucking at the game. He is just very dissapointed...
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