stefan (stefbun)
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66I do stuff with taxes for a living and occasionally touch server-stuff for a hobby (when I am not banging my head against it and want to throw it out the window)
I love dressing girly occasionally, call me crossdresser. All future pics for that will be posted on my picdump-account on my sharkey-instance: https://shark.lightnovel-dungeon.de/@stefan (I will vet the followings there)
I also love sewing and reading (Light Novels especially)
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@NeonPurpleStar Ich hab das auch manchmal. Dann brauch ich das hier und da mal dass man mir den Kopf grad rückt.
Es gibt dinge die wir als einzelne einfach nicht in der Hand haben. Dazu kommt dann auch gerne dass Medien gerne mal in einem negativen Bias berichten.
Die ganzen News lassen dann die Wirklichkeit schlimmer aussehen als sie ist. Das kann einen schnell runterziehen.
Aber gerade was diese diffuse Angst angeht... Muss man sich klar werden: Ist es wirklich so schlimm bei mir oder male ich mir grad im Kopf ein Horrorszenario aus.
War bei mir irgendwie genauso wo ich dann im Rock zum CSD bin im Zug. Hab mir bestimmt zwei Tage gedanken gemacht ob ich wirklich so zug fahren sollte.
Am Ende hab ich das dann doch gemacht. Mulmiges Gefühl gehabt aber passiert ist nix. Ich einen wirklich tollen Tag.
Darfst nie vergessen. Die rechten sind weniger als der Rest. Die sind einfach nur laut.
Lass dich nicht von deinem Weg abbringen. Liebe was du willst und führe deine Beziehungen so wie sie dir passen.
Sei einfach wie du bist daran ist genau nichts falsches! Und jeder der was anderes sagt hat Unrecht!
Es gibt dinge die wir als einzelne einfach nicht in der Hand haben. Dazu kommt dann auch gerne dass Medien gerne mal in einem negativen Bias berichten.
Die ganzen News lassen dann die Wirklichkeit schlimmer aussehen als sie ist. Das kann einen schnell runterziehen.
Aber gerade was diese diffuse Angst angeht... Muss man sich klar werden: Ist es wirklich so schlimm bei mir oder male ich mir grad im Kopf ein Horrorszenario aus.
War bei mir irgendwie genauso wo ich dann im Rock zum CSD bin im Zug. Hab mir bestimmt zwei Tage gedanken gemacht ob ich wirklich so zug fahren sollte.
Am Ende hab ich das dann doch gemacht. Mulmiges Gefühl gehabt aber passiert ist nix. Ich einen wirklich tollen Tag.
Darfst nie vergessen. Die rechten sind weniger als der Rest. Die sind einfach nur laut.
Lass dich nicht von deinem Weg abbringen. Liebe was du willst und führe deine Beziehungen so wie sie dir passen.
Sei einfach wie du bist daran ist genau nichts falsches! Und jeder der was anderes sagt hat Unrecht!
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@NeonPurpleStar schlaf auf alle Fälle gut
Und mach einfach das worauf du Lust hast. Mit jemand zusammen lässt sich die ganze Scheiße sicher auch einfacher aushalten.
(vielleicht bisschen weniger Introvert overthinking...)
Und mach einfach das worauf du Lust hast. Mit jemand zusammen lässt sich die ganze Scheiße sicher auch einfacher aushalten.
(vielleicht bisschen weniger Introvert overthinking...)
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@NeonPurpleStar Aber unglücklich sein ist ja auch keine Option 
Ich hoffe einfach nur dass die Lage hier nicht so wird wie in den USA. Versuche aber Zuversichtlich zu sein (nenn es von mir aus naiv und dumm
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Ich hoffe einfach nur dass die Lage hier nicht so wird wie in den USA. Versuche aber Zuversichtlich zu sein (nenn es von mir aus naiv und dumm
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@fabiscafe Manga-passion hat auch eine klasse Liste: https://www.manga-passion.de/manga
Ob die nen RSS-Feed haben weiß ich aber nicht
Ob die nen RSS-Feed haben weiß ich aber nicht
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@NeonPurpleStar Oh don't be so hard on yourself. If thats what you want you should go for it!
Wie hab ich schon auf einem Sticker gelesen: "Lebe so dass die AfD was dagegen hätte"
If thats what you want you should go for it!Wie hab ich schon auf einem Sticker gelesen: "Lebe so dass die AfD was dagegen hätte"
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re: crossdressing, lolita princess dress edition
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@desea The sleeves are literally press fit on there for the photos. They are actually way to small for me really. Just enough wiggling could get them where I had them on the photo.
Normally you would attach them to the short sleeves. There are buttons inside there to hold them. It would look akin to the photo. They would also be a tad short on me that way.
I could make some better fitting ones myself likely and do them with elastic up top. I tbh do not understand why they don't have elastic as is. Like the short sleeves and neckline and back have elastic why not the sleeve.
It is kinda sad I will end up selling the dress again though as its just too small.
It got me thinking though of maybe putting together something myself lol. We will see.
For I just bought a pattern for a male maid dress which might be fun
Normally you would attach them to the short sleeves. There are buttons inside there to hold them. It would look akin to the photo. They would also be a tad short on me that way.
I could make some better fitting ones myself likely and do them with elastic up top. I tbh do not understand why they don't have elastic as is. Like the short sleeves and neckline and back have elastic why not the sleeve.
It is kinda sad I will end up selling the dress again though as its just too small.
It got me thinking though of maybe putting together something myself lol. We will see.
For I just bought a pattern for a male maid dress which might be fun
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@RedTechEngineer @schappi @FloatingGhost @mametsuko @aetios Have seen mame IRL. Can confirm she is cute
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re: crossdressing, lolita princess dress edition
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@ritahayuni @Nukumori Yeah I did notice myself it just is too small (I had that feeling when buying it as well). Its really sad. I love the look of it 
The shoes I actually liked but obvs. to go somewhere with it. Just some other style would be good. I am not a fan of the ones you send really. Not my style.
I likely will sell it again when I took some pictures in the complete dress.
The shoes I actually liked but obvs. to go somewhere with it. Just some other style would be good. I am not a fan of the ones you send really. Not my style.
I likely will sell it again when I took some pictures in the complete dress.
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@NeonPurpleStar owww Stuff happens tbh. I know that feeling
Though there is always something you learn from it. mistakes are fine. It might have hurt someone along the way then you can only ask them to excuse your behaviour.
But a blunder does sound more like its not that harsh. Just do your best!
Though there is always something you learn from it. mistakes are fine. It might have hurt someone along the way then you can only ask them to excuse your behaviour.
But a blunder does sound more like its not that harsh. Just do your best!
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I kinda forget to cc @ritahayuni and @Nukumori
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I got something real nice today UwU
The Lolita Princess Dress made it to me finally. Its a dress from Bodyline in Size M / 38. Normally not my size but it has quite some elastic to it. So it mostly does fit.
But some stuff is a bit tight, oh well. I am not petite nor a woman lol.
It does sit quite high again but looks good generally.
Also the new haircut does look good with it. (Although you can't really see it fully)
There is a cute choker missing the seller forgot which will come to me via Mail next few days.
The seller included a headband with some wings on it as well. Still not sure what to make of it lol.
I think the white tights just look right with the dress. Maybe just missing some headpiece dunno if a black one would be better than a white.
Also dress looks right only with the sleeves on. I really had quite some trouble getting them on lol. The dress has so much elastic around it. On the waist, the short sleeves, and neckhole and the back (thats why it even fits at all I guess). but the princess-sleeves? Nuh Uh no elastic there!
I kinda got them on just about for the photos. If I really wanted to wear the dress like that I would certainly need to make my own sleeves though.
The dress obvoiusly needed a petticoat to look good, so it is included in every photo
Also I am still trying to figure out what to do with the black band in the front so it looks a bit out of place.
If I were to choose from the photos made I like the strappy High heels best with the dress.
For some fun I did try on my 20 cm pleasers but it just looked off lol. Having some fun I guess.
#crossdressing
The Lolita Princess Dress made it to me finally. Its a dress from Bodyline in Size M / 38. Normally not my size but it has quite some elastic to it. So it mostly does fit.
But some stuff is a bit tight, oh well. I am not petite nor a woman lol.
It does sit quite high again but looks good generally.
Also the new haircut does look good with it. (Although you can't really see it fully)
There is a cute choker missing the seller forgot which will come to me via Mail next few days.
The seller included a headband with some wings on it as well. Still not sure what to make of it lol.
I think the white tights just look right with the dress. Maybe just missing some headpiece dunno if a black one would be better than a white.
Also dress looks right only with the sleeves on. I really had quite some trouble getting them on lol. The dress has so much elastic around it. On the waist, the short sleeves, and neckhole and the back (thats why it even fits at all I guess). but the princess-sleeves? Nuh Uh no elastic there!
I kinda got them on just about for the photos. If I really wanted to wear the dress like that I would certainly need to make my own sleeves though.
The dress obvoiusly needed a petticoat to look good, so it is included in every photo
Also I am still trying to figure out what to do with the black band in the front so it looks a bit out of place.
If I were to choose from the photos made I like the strappy High heels best with the dress.
For some fun I did try on my 20 cm pleasers but it just looked off lol. Having some fun I guess.
#crossdressing
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stefan (stefbun)
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manchmal hat man einfach einen guten Start in den Tag.
Auch wenn ich gestern zu spät ins Bett bin und daher bissle wenig geschlafen aber egal.
Aber ich war gestern noch beim Frisör und hab meine Haare wieder ein bisschen kürzer und in besserer Form.
Steh heute so auf und denk "Ich seh heute gut aus!"
Also fedi denkt immer dran: Ihr seht heute auch gut aus!
Auch wenn ich gestern zu spät ins Bett bin und daher bissle wenig geschlafen aber egal.
Aber ich war gestern noch beim Frisör und hab meine Haare wieder ein bisschen kürzer und in besserer Form.
Steh heute so auf und denk "Ich seh heute gut aus!"
Also fedi denkt immer dran: Ihr seht heute auch gut aus!
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