@snow this is what aety said the other day…

@snow mood but hold on YOURE ONE OF THE COOL FRIENDS THOUGH????

@snow this is for @rick

@aetios @snow but that means.... you are not the cool friend

(you are a cool fren though

@snow https://furry.engineer/@soatok/115209014615644438

@xerz
> This is a desirable outcom
depression is not desirable

@aetios

@mametsuko esterday Soatok posted about this (but in a more qualified way) and I had to make this meme/shitpost out of it to lower the standard again :D

https://todon.eu/@ljrk/115209218586478401

I think this is record time for a meme being created, posted on fedi, and reposted on fedi :D Curious where @snow found this? (there's also alt in the original you may reuse :-p)

@stefan @snow eheheeheh
also @aetios as is see in the post above.

we should make an support group

@rick @snow @aetios pretty sure fedi itself is your support-group

@stefan @snow @aetios hahahaha true

@snow @xerz Pro Gamer Tip™: do not

@eloy @xerz

@snow this feels like me -> y’all

@domi kinda silly how i made this bcs it's how i feel and then all my cool[er] friends go "omg mooood"

@snow @domi I would dare to theorize that suffering imposter-syndrome is like the most agreed thing on tech-fedi.

I don't have enough bats to bonk everyone on here for it Have some confidence in your abilities folks!

@stefan @domi i dont have abilities, i'm just a silli girl

@snow @stefan you have more abilities than you give yourself credit for :)

@snow @domi But you are a silly girl

But in all honesty I see people on here do cool stuff everyday. Getting those 4 of your panel thingies to work for example is an ability. I would not even know where to begin with that

I have rick sometimes tell me what he is doing in his homelab (soon to be datacenter?! {lies})

Sometimes I am sitting there listening "ha okay I did maybe get half of that but it sounds cool"

But I like seeing people being passionate about what they like. It makes them happy.

Yet rick sometimes tells he does not feel good-enough.

Like really you guys need to get in your heads that you are fine. Not feel bad. follow your curiosities. Just because someone else is seemingly "better" at x should not diminish you.

There is likely stuff these other people can't do that you can

@snow

@schappi

@snow understandable, yeah… ngl tho I do think that the only issue with such social dynamics is whenever friends are inclusive and supportive enough, in my experience you’ll typically get one chance to learn cool things with each one and just… fail

@xerz if theyre really your friends you get as many chances as you want

@snow ….some left forever because I was too much, others… I’m afraid I’ll do the same thing to them

I don’t know, I understand not everyone has the time or the mood

@xerz